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The Break-Up

2011-07-28T16:33:00.000-07:00

Dear Blog,

We’ve had some really good times together- good laughs, great pictures and touching memories. I’ve shared with you my successes and my sorrows. You’ve always been there for me- patiently waiting for me to upload my latest pictures.

But something has been missing.

I log on to you and I just stare. My mind goes blank. My creativity vanishes. I’m not blaming you- I just don’t feel like we bring out the best in each other. I have hardly acknowledged you in the last year! You deserve more than that.

You should know that I have found a fresh, new (and what I believe to be a more savvy) blog-hosting website that has more space (3 gigabytes), protects me from comment spam, provides a comprehensive statistics report daily, automatic updates and more. And frankly, I just like it more.

This new blog allows me to be more true to myself- it doesn’t carry the same expectations that you did. I feel free again.

So with a heavy heart, I say it’s time to go our separate ways.

I know it’s cliché, but I will always hold a special place for you in my heart. After all, you were my first.

With the fondest of feelings,

Carly

Update - Sweet & Short!

2010-10-24T18:14:00.000-07:00

Wow, it has been soooo long since I have updated. I will try to review the entire last year...

- I had my first kiss in a couple years ;)
- Carter's hair started to grow back
- I went to my first University of Utah Football game in Fall '09 (I now bleed red)
- I visited St. George for the first time for a friend's wedding
- I wore 4 different Halloween costumes for Halloween '09
- Carter got brand new skis for Christmas '09
- Carter turned 5 years old
- I lost weight and gained a love for the gym
- I fell in love with my personal trainer and he became my boyfriend
- I moved to downtown SLC in my friends' Emily and Beau's basement apartment
- I trained my body to run for longer than 1 minute (I have ran up to 45 minutes)
- I went to Moab to camp with my boyfriend Jay
- I soaked up sun on the back patio with Carter, Emily and Arden
- Carter started all-day Kindergarten
- I quit my job so I could have the freedom to create the life I desire
- I got a new personal trainer (Nina in North Carolina)
- We got a cat named Georgie
- I volunteer twice a week at Carter's school
- I started a new blog for everything "me" called www.theeverythingroom.com
- I am still in love with my former personal trainer <3

That about chalks it up. I promise ya'll I will be much more diligent in my blogging! Cheers!

Sneak Peek!

2009-08-16T21:38:00.000-07:00

I spent almost my entire weekend on this project. One that's long overdue. Here is a Sneak Peek into my newly, re-vamped place of serenity...

I have a couple more details to take care of, and then I will post some more "complete" pictures!

Ahem?...

2009-08-10T21:46:00.000-07:00

Gorgeous, beautiful, dazzling, exquisite, stunning, glorious, ravishing, elegant? Ya think?

Go to my photography blog, www.carlywphotography.blogspot.com to indulge in more. Seriously, I am in love.

My Family

2009-08-07T20:09:00.000-07:00

Hello again!

I have to just share quickly how much I love and appreciate my family. Andrea, Jayson, Brandon, Nancy, Javier, Makayla, Mom, Michael, Dad, RaeAnn, Angie, Darin, Jordan, Mckenzie, Lyndi, Brady, Kyle, Ethan and of course Carter. My family is the best! We are all like pieces of a puzzle that fit perfectly together. Everyone contributes their own "flair" and I love each and every one of them. I laugh and laugh and laugh when I am with my family. We all have the same, very unique sense of humor. My very best moments are spent with my family. I love all of you!

Another Bird Story...

2009-08-07T19:37:00.000-07:00

For some unknown reason, we have a lot of unfortunate events with birds around here. A bird flew into my parked car and died. There was the story of the deceased bird in our driveway (see that story a couple posts back) and then there is the story of the baby birthday bird. I will delight all of you with that story now. Actually, it was very tragic, so if you are sensitive when it comes to animals (Andrea), please read no more.

On June 7th, 2009, I turned the ripe 'ol age of 25. The birthday festivities were the best yet, beginning with a 90-minute hot stone massage and a apple pie caramel apple. I taught a lesson at church that went well and I gave googly eyes to the secret crush at church. My friends Doug and Laura brought me a birthday cake and I was preparing to head over to Mom's for a multi-birthday feast with my family.

Five minutes after Doug and Laura left me with my delicious cake, I heard a knock on the door. I answered it and it was Laura with her hands cupped together. She says, "Look what I found?" She opens her hands and there is a teency, tiny bird. Really tiny. It had to have just hatched, it was that small. She saw this tiny bird in the gutter next to two others which were dead. She went on to tell me that she would take it home and care for it but she had 2 cats at home so she asked me to take it. Of course, I could not say no. I have a very, very soft spot in my heart when it comes to animals. So I found a tiny box, made a make-shift home and headed over to Mom's. Andrea was there (she is also an animal-lover) and she supported me in trying to nurse this baby bird back to health. She went online and found out how to provide emergency care for a baby bird. We fed it a water and sugar mixture using a tiny dropper. After a couple hours of this, it started to perk up and was not nearly as lethargic. I was diligent in feeding it every half-hour. I spent the whole rest of my birthday night nursing this bird back to health. The online instructions indicated that it was not necessary to feed the bird at night. We went to bed and I was thrilled that the bird was becoming more and more active. I woke up in the morning and the bird had made it! I prepared its meal (egg yolk and baby oatmeal cereal mixed with water) and went to feed it. Again, it was so lethargic it could barely hold its head. I went to get a warm cloth to clean the food off its feathers, and when I got back to the bird, it had passed away. I instantly started to cry uncontrollably for at least 10 minutes. I was so disappointed. I went and woke Carter up and he helped me fill the bird's box with shredded paper. We sealed it up with tape and took it to the garbage can. Carter told me in a very optimistic tone, "Don't cry Mom. He is in heaven with Jesus. And Sneakers. And Pookie". And so he was.

Summer Update

2009-08-07T18:21:00.000-07:00

Ok, so I have to admit that I have been a little distracted the last couple months and therefore, lax on my blogging. This summer has been a lot busier than that of 2008. Definitely more work; less play. So here is my summer update:

Carter

Carter goes to school Mondays, Thursdays and Fridays. He really likes school and he loves to be around other kids. He especially enjoys Fridays at school because it is Water Day! He loves to swim! He can write CARTER, MOM, CARROT and CARLY all by himself. He likes to watch Hannah Montana (Yeah, I know) and also likes to kick his soccer ball around. He loves cats; especially Bella, Zoe, Winnie, Chloe, Jack, Emerson and Luna. Carter enjoys spending time with his Grammy and Grandpa and his Nana and Papa. He did get to spend the 24th of July up at his Grammy and Grandpa's cabin. He had many adventures and he even caught his first fish! Oh and the most important news of all... Carter's hair has almost completely grown back out! I know many will be relieved to hear this good news. Carter is a happy, loving and well-behaved child. He brings so much light and joy into my life.

Carly

I have been working full-time at SkinCareRX for the last month. It has been hectic, but I think I have done pretty well. Anyone that knows me, knows I have never been a morning person. Ever. Thanks to my new full-time schedule, I am an EARLY BIRD! It has been fantastic! Waking up at 5:00am and going to bed at 10:00pm- its a life I have never known! I have been extremely busy at the gym. First time in my life actually and I have loved it! I have had some physical results, but more importantly, my health and well-being has improved so much. I have ventured out a little more on the singles scene. It has been quite the adventure and I am sure will continue to be. I have not had a vacation and it will be a while before I do... fingers crossed for Japan in the Fall of 2010. I have started dancing again on my own. Just turn on music and dance. It is something that I haven't done for years and its been wonderful to get in touch with that part of me again. I love to take photographs. I did an engagement session for one of my BFF's, Joanie. To check out those, go to www.carlywphotography.blogspot.com . I will be taking her bridals this weekend also. So, a very busy summer!

I only had 2 pictures of just me; this one or one of me dancing in the night... in my swimsuit. I opted for this one.

R.I.P. Little Bird

2009-03-22T18:38:00.000-07:00

I just have to share this story from yesterday:

Carter and I went out to get the mail from the mailbox. On our way there, we found (to our dismay) a "little bird" dead in our driveway. Carter thought we had run over it on our way into the driveway earlier and began to go into a state of panic. I assured him over and over again that we had not run it over, and he started to calm. And then he started to cry. I know I am his mother, and therefore, I think he is the most amazing child, but really, he is the most sensitive and compassionate little boy I have ever seen.

Then he wondered how he went to heaven if his 'lil bird body was lying in our driveway. I tried (my very best) to explain to him The Ressurection and The Plan of Salvation. Not an easy task to convey this incredible plan to a 4-year old. As we talked about it, he began to brighten and you could see the gloom leave his face. We went in the house and found the best box we could find (a Nordstrom box) and we carefully shoveled it up and put it in the box. We went to the garbage can, said a few words, and dropped the bird in the can.

I don't think Carter has thought about this event again. But, I keep thinking how grateful I am to have such a sweet, tender-hearted Carter in my life. Little experiences like this everyday make me realize he is a special spirit destined for great things in this world. And how lucky am I to be able to (hopefully) help shape and mold him into that incredible person who will, I am sure, contribute so much to society.

My Valentine... 2nd Year Running

2009-02-15T20:01:00.000-08:00

We had a great Valentine's Day this year. Our day went as follows:

9:00am-12:00pm: Cleaned our house. Yes, Carter does his part in cleaning. As you can see already, he was a great Valentine.

1:00-4:00pm: Went to movie theatre to play at the Arcade. We easily spent an hour in there. We did finally go see a movie. Coraline. Incredibly creepy. I don't recommend it at all.

5:00-6:00pm: Our initial plan was to get fancied up and go out to dinner. But Carter was tired and I didn't want to drive out on the cold, wet roads. So... Plan B. I would make a homemade, "special" dinner. Carter requested none else then good 'ol Mac 'n Cheese. The was the last thing in the world I wanted. So, I would compromise. I found a recipe online for a gourmet Mac 'n Cheese and I was on board! We went shopping at the fantastic Harmon's in Fort Union (Really, this place is incredible. A whole entire section devoted to CHEESE in every variety you can imagine). I was also going to pick up some flowers but Carter insisted on balloons. Balloons it was.

6:00-7:00pm: Prepared dinner together. Carter is a great Sous Chef in addition to being a great Valentine. We also set the table with a bouquet of balloons for each of us, plastic champagne glasses and courtesy of Carter- Heart Art hung on the wall. We dressed up in our best Pj's and sipped sparkling cider.

7:00-8:00pm: Enjoyed dinner together and topped it off with Ben and Jerry's ice cream; Half-Baked (lowfat) for me and Phish Food for Carter.

8:00-unknown time: Snuggled on the couch watching movies and dozed off together next to the fire.

A perfect Valentine's Day with my perfect Valentine.

Puzzle Mania!!

2009-02-15T19:24:00.000-08:00

Carter and I have discovered a past time we enjoy doing together. We have done about 3 puzzles since last Tuesday. Carter is actually quite good. He was able to find where certain pieces went that I gave up on.

It usually starts like this.

And ends like this.

Emiko & Yuitchi

2009-02-01T20:24:00.000-08:00

My dear friend Emiko came to Salt Lake City to visit for a week from Japan. She got married last year and this is the first time we met her husband, Yuitchi.

Have you ever just met someone and you have just felt such a goodness about that person?

I felt that when I first met Emiko over 6 years ago. I felt that again when I met Yuitchi. They were a joy to watch together. They were kind, loving and playful. I am so happy she met an amazing man and that she is so happy... And they look adorable in their matching coats!

They skiied at Snowbasin for a few days and had a great time. We went to dinner at Red Robin (Naturally, Emiko's favorite American restaurant, known for the Banzai Burger) and talked and laughed for hours.

Emiko and Yuitchi adored Carter and although he was shy around them, it was all he could talk about for days after. He wanted to go to Japan to see Emiko and Yuitchi. We are planning in the next couple years to either go to Japan or to meet up in Hawaii.

Emiko, I miss you already and I can't wait to see you again! Yuitchi, thank you for being so good to my dear friend and thank you for putting up with our crazy American ways!

A traumatic experience...

2009-02-01T20:02:00.001-08:00

So it happened. It finally happened. I have been dreading this day and it took me by complete surprise. I thought that I would have a choice but it hit us unexpectedly. Well it hit one of us unexpectedly.

Carter cut his own hair.

He walked out of the bathroom from going potty and he quietly said, "Ma, I cut my hair." I took one look at the big chunk missing from the front of his once gorgeous golden locks and I burst into tears. I think he was completely shocked by my reaction and he started to cry. I held him and stroked what remained of his hair.

"Mama, I will never do it again. I promise."

I tried to gather my composure as I dialed Andrea at 10:30 at night. She answered and I lost it. She asked over and over again what was happening and I managed to choke out the words, "This is really stupid that I am crying but Carter cut his hair."

I had no idea I was sooo attached. The next night we made an emergency trip to Andrea's salon. She cut and sheared away and suddenly revealed a boy. Where did my baby go?

Carter's grandma has not forgiven me for cutting all of his locks off but there was NO way to salvage his hair.

The new 'do is cute but I miss waking Carter up and only being able to see a mound of hair and just being able to run my fingers through his hair.

Christmas 2008

2009-02-01T19:00:00.000-08:00

I haven't posted in a while now and I have lots of pictures to share- I will start with Christmas!

Christmas Eve, Carter and I rode TRAX train downtown and went to Temple Sqaure! It was sooo fun and really cold! Carter loved the lights and we talked a lot about the temple. We also watched the Nativity presentation. Carter was fascinated! It was a great way to be reminded of the purpose of the Holiday season. I think this will become a Christmas Eve tradition for years to come!

We headed home and picked up some Chinese takeout for our Christmas Eve dinner. This is a tradition we did for a couple years when I was a child and I loved it! Carter doesn't really love Chinese but he really enjoyed the Sweet & Sour Chicken and Fried Rice. I had the Kung Pao Tofu and Potstickers! Yum!

We had a great Christmas morning; The highlights? Carter got a Leapster2 (a educational hand-held gaming system) and I got from Carter a Sonicare toothbrush! What a thoughtful boy, huh? (Thanks Ma!) We went and visited Nana and Papa, then Carter went to his dad's for a couple days. That weekend, we went to visit Carter's Grandma and Grandpa at their cabin. It was beautiful with fresh snow! We had good food, good conversation and a great snowshoe outing! Carter was absolutely spoiled rotten and we had to fill an entire duffel bag chuck-full of gifts! Oh, and Carter got to go on lots of rides on the snowmobile and snowcat with Grandpa!

All in all, Christmas was a happy and memorable time for us!

2008-12-23T21:06:00.001-08:00

Imagination

2008-12-21T15:18:00.000-08:00

I just told Carter he had to go potty and his exact words to me were:

"I caaaan't. You will flush me down the toilet! And that would not be good!"

2008-12-20T16:40:00.000-08:00

Christmas Surprise

2008-12-10T19:59:00.000-08:00

My former MIL and FIL surprised me with a GORGEOUS, brand new, shiny washer and dryer. That's right my friends- a high-efficiency, front-loading washer and dryer. I cannot even begin to express my love for these things. It was only a week ago that my one day off was devoted entirely to doing laundry at Mom's house. Not anymore. I can throw one load in at night and wake up to clean clothes. I no longer have loads and loads to do at one time. It is a beautiful thing!

Jim & Carol, Thank you a THOUSAND times! I LOVE them!

Breakthrough!

2008-12-10T19:57:00.000-08:00

So, I finally did it. I asked a man out. Ok, I kind of asked a man out. Really, I did not ask him out, but I left him my number so he could hopefully ask me out. I will update as soon as I something to update about!

Frugile, Frugile, Frugile and PROUD!

2008-12-08T22:47:00.001-08:00

I have a new obsession. It is online shopping. Yes, I can lie in my bed in my pajamas AND SHOP! I discovered this recently (even though I have been working for an online skincare retailer for almost a year now-hmmm, go figure!) and it gets even better!

You can google coupon codes for bukoo savings!! Yes siree!

I came across this website (you can find in my list of favorite websites) called Couponseven.com. Holy smokes! I found a coupon code for 30% OFF my purchase... That's right THIRTY PERCENT OFF!! I got Carter a hand-held educational gaming system and I saved like 50 bucks! Oh I am so stoked! Michael, I am sure you are just beaming right now with my Frugality!!

2008-11-04T20:46:00.000-08:00

Carter and I had our pictures taken at a orchard in Provo. The talented Wendy of Bluelily Photography did an INCREDIBLE job with Carter and managed to snap a plethora of amazing pictures in just 20 minutes- even with a wardrobe change half-way through!

I am so excited! I just received the proofs today! Unfortunately, I can't post the pictures to get help deciding which ones to choose (really I have about 30 to choose from!). But, Wendy did put some on her blog so I will post them here. Enjoy!

Congratulations!

2008-11-02T20:52:00.000-08:00

To Mom & Michael!

I had the wonderful opportunity to be able to attend their Temple Sealing. It was an amazing experience. I haven't sobbed like that in a while!

You two are a incredible example of what a marriage should be- I can only hope to find someone to share that kind of love with!

I love you!

We LOVE Halloween!

2008-11-02T19:27:00.000-08:00

Wow! Halloween 2008 was extra exciting! We had lots of different festivities going on this year and we barely made it through! By 10:00 on Halloween night, I was practically comatose.

This was the first year Carter picked out his costume. I was slightly nervous at first at the thought of him picking out his own costume- it left me feeling a little out of control! I have always dressed him up in the cutest, cuddliest costumes I can get my hands on... so what does he pick? The most un-cuddly costume ever... BATMAN! I'm not gonna lie... He was ADORABLE! See for yourself!

We started out the week with our Ward Halloween Party, which somehow I got roped into being in charge of the face painting. The kids loved that! I did have one boy ask me to paint a penguin. That was kind of weird. Funny story though- Carter was hanging out with this little boy from the ward and the little boy asked me if I was Carter's sister. I told him that I was his mom and be looked me up and down with a disgusted look on his face and said, "I have never seen a mom that looks like you." Not sure if that was a compliment or not!

Then the night before Halloween, Carter helped me make my costume. He got way into it saying things like, "Oh Mama. It's beautiful." and "You will be the cutest paper doll ever!"

Halloween morning, I woke up at 5:00am to get in my costume for work then I dropped Carter at school at 6:30am and went to work. I left work at 10:00 to go watch Carter in his school parade. Unfortunately, my camera battery died so I couldn't get any pictures of that. Went back to work where we had a fun Halloween lunch (soup in breadbowls- yum!) and had a costume contest... and GUESS WHAT?! I won!! I never win anything! I won Best Costume. It was pretty exciting! My favorite costume by far was Waldo (AKA Dan the Man). I tried to work for a little bit after that but I could barely contain my excitement. Then we were able to invite our kids to come trick or treat at work. It was so fun! Carter came and was loving how easy it was to get all that candy! We did see Flash along the way so we had to get a quick picture of a couple members of the Justice League!

We went home and met Carter's dad for a little trick or treating around the neighborhood and then we headed to Dad's for a Halloween spread. I love that family tradition! Seriously, its one of my favorites! Dad, you are gonna be hosting that one for a long time to come! We ate good food, talked, laughed, had an all-out wrestling match with all the neices and nephews on the front lawn. That was hilarious! Andrea and Jayson didn't dress up for the first time in years- so disappointing! I have a vague memory of Jayson in spandex and a 'fro and Andrea with incredible facial hair and a kilt! They usually are the King and Queen of Halloween. Well, maybe next year, huh guys? And to finish of the night... there was the Mullet. Stay tuned for a future post on that one.

6 Weird Quirks...

2008-10-13T20:52:00.000-07:00

Only 6? Really?

1. In my pantry, all of my cans have to be labels facing forward. It is a sickness that is deeply rooted in my 'ol Robyn Todd days!

2. I cannot sleep without moisturizer on my face and lotion on my feet. But hairy legs, NO PROBLEMO! Sorry, TMI.

3. All blinds must be closed at my house at dusk. I don't like the feeling of people potentially looking in at me- Like I am an animal in a cage.

4. Locking the doors. And relocking the doors. I can have my Dad to thank for instilling that one in me!

5. I have to go to sleep in a fully made bed... so if I didn't make my bed that morning after waking up, I have to make it all, and then climb in and tuck myself into bed.

6. I have 6 pillows on my bed, but only one I use. I cannot sleep on the same pillowcase more than twice. I sleep on one side the first night, then flip it over the second night. Then I will replace it with a new pillowcase. You can bet I have a plethora of pillowcases in my linen box!
PEOPLE! Sleeping on a dirty pillowcase will cause your skin to break out! No joke!

As you can tell, I have quite the bedtime routine!

I tag Mom, Angie and Amee!

p.s. Andrea, I loved your stache admission!

Congratulations!

2008-10-13T20:36:00.000-07:00

To Dad & RaeAnn!

They were married on Wednesday, October 3rd at a beautiful property located in Mountain Green.

I love you Dad! And I am so happy for the both of you!

Splurge!

2008-10-02T20:17:00.001-07:00

Yay! On Tuesday, I splurged and got myself something I really have wanted for a while... A DYSON vaccuum!

This baby can pick up anything! Who knew I could be so excited about a VACCUUM?!

My next big purchase...

Top Model

2008-09-14T20:47:00.001-07:00

On Saturday, Andrea and I got our hands on Michael's camera. This is the result:

And of course, we had to do some group shots:

We truly have been blessed with impressive photogenic talent. Should I say "Thanks Mom!" or "Thanks Dad!"?

Bubbly Beehives

2008-09-14T20:45:00.000-07:00

Last Sunday, I was called to be the Beehive advisor of my ward. I cannot even begin to express how happy this makes me! I love Young Women's! It's the only calling I have ever had!

I'm Baaaaaaccck...

2008-09-14T20:40:00.000-07:00

Ok, so I fell off the Blogging Bandwagon, but I have got some new amazing pictures that will provide for some great blogging material.

Summer Days (warning: this is a pathetic attempt at a blog entry...)

2008-07-01T20:24:00.000-07:00

I cannot even begin to tell how many times I have begun a new post with pictures and everything but I never actually save it. For some reason, I have no passion for blogging anymore. It is my primary method of journaling these days, and I just have not been diligent on keeping everything updated.

So, here are some of our activities this summer in a short "nutshell" post:

Swimming As often as we possibly can.

Bug-Catching Carter has decided he likes to put bugs in his pocket. He remembers them a few hours later and finds that they are dead. We release the bug to its natural habitat (nice way of saying we dump the poor, dead thing) and Carter will always comment saying something like (and always in a bright, cheery tone), "Maybe next time he will grow up." It is really quite dreadful.

Popsicles & Ice Cream Sandwiches Our favorite summer treat.

Sleepovers in Mom's Bed I have always refused to allow Carter to sleep in my bed... But its been so hot that I cannot bring myself to force Carter to sleep in his room where it is hot and stuffy. I have large windows and my room is at the back of the house where the cool breeze from the creek blows in. Beginning tonight, we have a window air-conditioning unit, so there will be no more sleepovers in my bed.

Cars the Movie We watch it constantly.

Soccer As soon as it cools down (about 8:00pm), we go out to the backyard and kick the soccer ball around. It is my last opportunity to exert the last of Carter's energy, hoping for a painless and easy bedtime routine.

Work & School This is the most time-consuming activity of our Summer Days. Necessary but certainly not the most fun.

Well, that's about it. We are looking forward to the Fourth of July and a family camping trip planned to take place a few weeks from now. There will be a few firsts for Carter, so there should definitely be some blogging material available.

Birthday Bash!

2008-06-08T21:15:00.000-07:00

Ok, it wasn't so much a bash, just a weekend full of fun activities.

Friday, June 6th

- I worked from 7-5. Blah.
- Went to dinner at Epic Restaurant with a group of best buds.
- Went to my mom's house with Best Buds and watched movies, opened presents and partook of a deliciously adorable cake; complements of Amee.
- Fell asleep on my mom's couch fully dressed with basically a towel as a blanket. Best Buds left me there.

Saturday June 7th (My Actual Birthdate)

- Woke up on Mom's couch and had her drive me to my house. Got in my pj's and went back to sleep in my bed until 10:30am.
- Woke up and did some digital scrapbooking and downloaded music.
- Got lunch at Subway. I love the Veggie Delite sandwich.
- Went to Sego Lily Day Spa in Murray where I soaked in a Japanese bath tub, had a 90-minute Hot Stone Massage, steamed, sauna-ed, ate snacks, drank Elixirs, slept, read. Finally, ended the spa trip with a luxurious 90-minute pedicure. Thank you Mama!! I was at the spa from 1:30-7:00!
- Went to my favorite Thai restaurant, Orchid, where I had potstickers and Yellow Curry with Chicken to go. Went back to my house with plans to watch all the movies I have been wanting to see, but remembering Carter had broken our TV two nights before. Ate food, read a book and went to bed at 9:30.

Sunday, June 8th

- Woke up to Carter arriving at my house (he was with his dad this weekend).
- Showered and got Carter and I ready for church.
- Went to church at 11:30am and I actually quite enjoyed my meetings today. Not to mention, one of my favorite people was sitting right by me in sacrament meeting! :)
- Went home, changed to cozy clothes and went to Mom's where Andrea and Jayson graced us with their presence. She made one of my favorite meals; Cafe Rio Salads (of course mine was meatless). We ate, talked, played and made some "plans" (wink wink).

Another year and another memorable birthday!

Bowling!

2008-05-26T21:15:00.001-07:00

This weekend, I was thinking of all kinds of things Carter and I could do together today.

Swimming, playing soccer, riding bikes... Even Lagoon was a possibility.

Well, as you may all have experienced, today was cold and rainy. So, what did we do, you ask? We went bowling! It was Carter's first time and he loved it!

Carter's average speed was about 1.8 miles per hour!

1st Game - I barely beat Carter! He is pretty good!

Carter would do this move and hold it while he waited for the ball to make it down the lane. People were laughing and clapping. He provided much entertainment for the nearby bowlers!

Carter enjoying some deliciously greasy bowling alley food!

Game 2 - I showed some improvement! Hey, I got a strike!

A little peek into my soul...

2008-05-26T13:53:00.000-07:00

I have realized that I always write about Carter (with such an endearing child, it's natural) so I thought I would write a bit about myself.

I have an obsession. I have a serious obsession. I have a shoe obsession.

I think it would be safe to say it is a borderline addiction. I try to keep myself under control by giving a pair away to D.I. for every pair I buy... that way I am giving back a little... but nevertheless, still borderline addiction, I think. Points, flats, heels, wedges- love 'em all.

So, I have put together some pictures of my favorite shoes this season. Please ignore my feet- they are in desperate need of some tender love and care. Anyone?

I am a size 5 1/2 - 6 if you'd like to check out a pair.

Funny Hair... Funny Faces

2008-05-26T13:27:00.000-07:00

Here are some pictures of Carter as I was getting him ready for church. This is pretty typical of our Sunday mornings.

Carter can clean up nice though.

The ABC's

2008-05-25T13:53:00.000-07:00

The ABC's
I've been tagged! Thanks a lot Andrea!

A- Attached or single: Still attached legally... Nuf' said.
B- Best Friend: Andrea and Mommy
C-Cake or Pie: Cake. Oooh... Dairy Queen Ice Cream Cake- with the cookie fudge center!
D-Day: Definitely Sunday
E- Essential Item: Facial Moisturizer
F- Favorite Color: I love them all!
G-Gummi Bears or Worms: Worms- you can slurp 'em!
H-Home town: Syracuse
I- Indulgences: Haaggen Daaz Coffee Ice Cream (although I have not had it in a few months- I could not convince myself any longer that it was just coffee flavoring!), massages and sleeping in.
J- January or July?: Pre-Carter... January. Post-Carter... July.
K-Kids: One amazing child who is the epitomy of perfection.
L-Life is incomplete without: LOVE. Any form of it.
M- Marriage Date: Non-Applicable. Ha!
N- Number of Siblings: 4 brothers-Aaron, Brandon, Ethan & Kyle. 2 sisters-Angie & Andrea.
O- Oranges or Apples: Oranges! Oh and I love orange juice with tons of pulp in it!
P- Phobias or Fears: Spiders, sharks and jellyfish. And being locked in a car trunk. Which did happen once (You remember that Andrea? Girls Camp at Ophir? Yup, you did it).
Q- Quote: Gordon B. Hinckley - “It isn’t as bad as you sometimes think it is. If we will put our trust in Him, if we will pray to Him, if we will live worthy of His blessings, He will hear our prayers.”
R- Reason To Smile: I'm blessed. :)
S- Season: That's a toss-up between Spring and Fall.
T- Tag Three: Amee, Darcie and Kacie
U- Unknown fact about me: I am pretty much an open book!
V- Vegetarian or Oppressor of Animal: I was a vegetarian until I became pregnant. All I wanted was red meat! Now, I am leaning back towards vegetarianism.
W- Worst Habit: I sometimes impulsively cut my own bangs... with small eyebrow grooming scissors nonetheless!
X-Rays or Ultrasounds: Ultrasounds are great if there is a baby in there!
Y-Your favorite food: I have pretty much been obsessed with Thai food. Yellow Curry Chicken and Tofu Pad Thai! YUM! The best!
Z: Zodiac Sign: Gemini

How do I tag?

Mother's Day

2008-05-11T20:15:00.000-07:00

I am so grateful to be a mother. As difficult as it can be at times, there is nothing more fulfilling.

Today in sacrament meeting, the Primary children sang a medley of songs as they traditionally do. This was the first year Carter was able to participate. He stood in the front and he waved proudly to me as they began to sing. It brought tears to my eyes because it is amazing he is already to that age. He also began to pick his nose which made me laugh and cry at the same time. There is always one and I never thought this time, it would be mine!!

Bored

2008-05-06T17:35:00.001-07:00

I am at work right now and for some reason (well a lot of reasons), I just cannot focus. So, I need to do something to pass the time...

Here are some of the many reasons I should be home right now and not working.

-I just got new, crisp, white 1200-thread count sheets. I should be breaking them in.
-I am in the mood for potstickers, which tends to be at least a day-long event.
-I am in the middle of three books. Yes, that's right, three. I need to get them finished so I can start a new one... or two.
-I have not scrapbooked in at least 6 months. I need to get going!
-Carter and I need to go on a bike ride together.
-I just like home. I am kinda a homebody.
-I need to sew my pillow shams, build and upholster a new headboard and hang my curtains.
-I want to snuggle with my bug - Carter Bug.
-I would like to just sit out by the creek in my backyard. We have a creek!
-I miss my Carter.

I know, I know. Many of you are probably surprised- I have become quite domesticated.

The Mullet

2008-05-04T22:24:00.000-07:00

Recently, I had to have Carter's hair cut because it has become insanely long. I always make the 45 minute drive to Andrea's salon for a 10-minute haircut (although we usually do enjoy a nice lunch and conversation) and then I will typically head back home.

However, the last 2 times, I have just gone into a nice salon with a good reputation that is close by my home. I hope and pray they will not mess up Carter's precious hair. It really has become his trademark. The first time, the woman was older, larger and more outdated-er (I know that this is not a word- back off!) and I was extremely nervous but I am too nice and I was in too deep to back out. So, she started chopping away and to my surprise, it turned out quite nice.

The second cut, which happened about 1 1/2 weeks ago, I tried to get back into the above mentioned and she was booked the whole day. The receptionist talked me into going to another stylist. She told me she was the best and she was really fashionable and cute. So, I agreed. She was great with Carter and she seemed to know what she was doing. She really went to town with the razor and it looked much more "texturized" (ya like that, Andrea?)than what I would think a 3-year old boy would need. She styled it pretty cute with gel and everything, I paid $20 (yikes) and we were on our way.

As the day went on and Carter's hair began to fluff out, all I could think was mullet. For the next 10 days, no matter how I styled it, it looked like a mullet.

On Sunday, we had a family gathering. Carter ran into the room where Jayson and Andrea were as they had just arrived. Andrea says, "Oh... Carter's hair is sooo... short." I started to laugh and I said, "You mean it is a mullet" She finally admitted that it was a terrible haircut and she should fix it. I ran to my house, got my scrapbook scissors, and she began the transformation.

Here is the before of the mullet.

Here is the beginning of the transformation.

Here is the after... the demise of the mullet.

Yes Andrea, I have learned my lesson. I will never betray you like that again. The 45-minute drive is a small price to pay for "un-mullety" hair.

Spidey Senses

2008-05-04T22:16:00.000-07:00

I love my child. I especially love my child in his amazing Spiderman Sweat Suit (complements of Grammy & Grandpa straight from China... the suit, not Grammy & Grandpa).

Here are some photos of Spiderman in action.

Here are some more photos of Spiderman after a long day (and night) of action.

Why am I so blessed?

2008-04-26T12:00:00.000-07:00

Friday morning, I found Carter making his bed. It seriously cannot get any better than this! He is such a good boy! I did not even ask him to do it!!

Rub-a-dub-dub... is that a naked Carter in the... sink?

2008-04-26T11:31:00.000-07:00

We only have a shower at our house and not a bathtub. Carter use to enjoy showers but has recently decided that he detests them. So, this is the alternative- Which he loves.

At a recent stay and Aunt Andrea's & Uncle Jayson's, Carter upgraded. He loved the freedom he felt with all that space.

Notice the visitor in the corner.

Wicked

2008-04-23T09:29:00.001-07:00

Last night I ran for the first time in... I don't know, 5 years! Boy, was that wicked.

Pee Diaries - Part 2

2008-04-20T09:49:00.001-07:00

I have decided that I will not declare when I believe Carter is potty-trained because it has always backfired on me! Even when he is 19 years old, I still will not actually say he is potty-trained.

Here's the story:

So, Carter spent the night at his dad's on Friday night- so obviously, I had no potty problems. Then comes Saturday.

Amee, Ashley, Carter and I took a little trip to Ikea. Amee and Ashley thought it would be a great idea to leave Carter in the little play place; I hesitantly agreed. We left and Ikea provided me with a buzzer (like the device you get at restaurants when waiting to get a table) and informed me, should there be any problems, they would notify me by buzzing the buzzer. As we walked away, part of me just knew that that buzzer would go off during our Ikea trip. About thirty-five minutes into our delightful shopping experience, Amee says, "Uh-oh. Carly, your buzzer is going off." Five seconds later, on the loud-speaker, I hear, "Carly Warburton, please report to the playland immediately". So I try to make my way through the maze that is Ikea, and I finally make it to the children's center. I let the staff know that I was Carter Warburton's mother. They said, "You are going to need to come back here". They let me in and told me I could find Carter in the bathroom. I go in and find (not surprised really) that Carter had peed his pants. I am assuming he thought he would be helpful (or maybe he was just trying to cover his error from Mom) so he had taken his underwear off and had rinsed them out in the sink and the entire bathroom floor was covered in water. Carter was standing with his lower-half naked with the cutest look on his face. How could I be angry? So, I began to mop up the mess. It took me a good 15 minutes to get the floor cleaned up. I had to use the papertowels that are automatically dispensed with a motion detection sensor. Do keep in mind, that this was Ikea which happens to be an incredibly eco-friendly store. You can bet that when it came to papertowels, there was no excess of it to waste. It went like this: Wave of the hand, out came a small amount of paper towel; Wave of the hand, out came a small amount of paper towel; Wave of the hand, out came a small amount of paper towel... so on and so on. As you can imagine, I was irritated. We checked out with a 3-year old soaked in water and pee. We made it to the car, where I did an impromptu redress (luckily I had a couple changes of clothing with me - you learn these things quickly when you become a mother) and we were on our way to our next destination- Gardner Village. Luckily, all went well there. We made our way down to Syracuse where Carter and I would be staying the night at Andrea and Jayson's home. We had a lovely dinner (thanks Andrea, the hostess with the mostess) and talked when suddenly, Carter ran to the bathroom where I found him in soaked pants and underwear. Not again! Threw him the tub (I didn't really throw him- it's just a figure of speech!), bathed him, got him dressed in his pajamas and ready for bed. We had an uneventful overnight. Fast forward to this morning; Carter pooped his pants right after I had taken his pull-up off and put his underwear on. This was right after Emerson (Andrea and Jayson's really cute cat) had barfed right by my face as I was sleeping.

I seriously cannot handle dealing with any more bodily functions; child or feline.

Rock on Dude!

2008-04-16T20:11:00.000-07:00

The other day I was cleaning and I came out to the kitchen and found Carter like this:

He was playing the air guitar and saying "Rock on dude!"

Amazing.

I feel left out...

2008-04-15T14:49:00.000-07:00

I have noticed that every blog I have seen has received comments on their posts or pictures. I have not had any! It came to my attention (Thanks Darcie) that for some reason, my blog was not allowing comments to be posted. So, I have changed the settings on my blog and I think I can now receive comments!

Please leave a little note (If you'd like) to boost my spirits!

Inclement Weather

2008-04-15T14:27:00.000-07:00

Ok, so even though I am ticked about the snow, I felt like I needed to write a little more than I did in the previous post.

Today, I was suppose to play tennis. And tonight I was going to run. My mom, Andrea and I are going to start training for a 10k (I really don't even know how far that is, but at this stage in my life, it sounds really exhausting). I am anxious to begin but even as I type this post, I glance out the window to see the snow keep coming down. It really is quite depressing. I need the sun, warmth and long days to be happy.

Is this some kind of a joke?

2008-04-15T14:26:00.000-07:00

Why is is snowing right now?

It's been a while... Update

2008-04-10T20:01:00.000-07:00

Well, what can I say? Life has got the best of me and I have not been diligent in my blogging (although I have done much better than Andrea and Amee - really guys, why don't you get it together?).

The latest and greatest...

I have started working full-time which seems to be going quite well. Of course, I'd much rather be home riding bikes, playing soccer and basking in the sun with Carter. Oh, wait, it's been like 30 degrees outside so it's not like I could've done those things even if I wanted to.

Carter is finally going pee and poop (apologies to the faint at heart)completely on his own. He doesn't even need reminders. This is extremely exciting.

That's it. This is our life!

Easter Festivites

2008-03-26T20:31:00.000-07:00

We had a great Easter weekend. Saturday we did an Easter egg hunt with the cousins (all 3 of 'em) and a Easter Brunch. Good food, Good fun, baaaddd brownies.

On Sunday morning, I woke Carter up and told him that it was Easter morning. I said "The Easter Bunny left you something!" Carter was dead asleep until I said that then He popped right up and said very clearly, alert and enthusiastically, "Thank You".

He quickly got out of bed, went to the living room and ran straight for his basket chuck full o' goodies. He completely bipassed the brand new shiny bike. He didn't even notice! I sat there and tried to guess how long it would take for him to notice it but I just couldn't contain myself, so I directed him towards it. He loved it!

Carter in his Easter Sunday Clothes.

Sunday

2008-03-16T21:31:00.000-07:00

Today we went to

"Snack-ra-ment Meeting"

&

"Play-mary"

according to Carter.

Yummy Springtime Veggie Dish

2008-03-11T22:03:00.000-07:00

Ok, So I read in Wasatch Women Magazine about this recipe. I did not write it down so this is strictly from memory and it may not be exact, but boy, was it good.

Roasted Asparagus with Balsamic

1 bunch of Asparagus
1 tbsp Olive Oil
1 dash Kosher Salt
1 tbsp Balsamic Vinegarette
1 tbsp shredded parmesan cheese

Break off the woody ends of the asparagus and place on baking sheet. Drizzle with olive oil and make sure all asparagus is evenly coated. Sprinkle salt over the top. Place in preheated 400 degree oven for a couple minutes. You will know when it is done when the olive oil starts sizzling. Pull out the asparagus and drizzle with Balsamic and sprinkle with cheese. Put back in oven for 1 minute or until the cheese is slightly melted. Voila! Enjoy!

Ice Age 2 - The world's greatest movie

2008-03-11T21:57:00.000-07:00

So, the latest craze around our house is this movie called "Ice Age 2". Now if you have not seen this movie, you have obviously been living under a rock and may not appreciate this...

Carter walks around the house saying all day long the following movie quotes.

"BORING!"

"I was born in this hole and I will die in this hole".

"Make me sloth!"

And finally, my personal favorite...

"Sorry - My stomach hates me!"

If you have not seen this movie, do yourself a favor and rent it or ask to borrow it from me. It is quite good.

A Walk Down Memory Lane

2008-02-28T11:18:00.001-08:00

I haven't added any pictures in a while so I thought I would just grab a couple and post 'em! It is hard to believe Carter was ever this little! It is amazing how fast he has grown into a little man!

The Naughty Rock

2008-02-25T12:21:00.000-08:00

"You don't like me anymore?" ... as I put him on the "naughty rock". We use to do the "naughty step" but the new apartment doesn't have any steps so the fireplace hearth makes do. The "naughty ________(fill in the blank) is by far the best disciplinary technique I know of. You can put the kiddo on anything. We have had the "naughty step", "naughty rock", "naughty stool", naughty couch", naughty bench", even the "naughty ledge". Oh, and how could I forget the "naughty corner"?

My Valentine Cupid

2008-02-17T13:14:00.000-08:00

On Valentine's Day, Carter and I made mini cakes for our valentines and then we handed them out. We also made Valentine cards which were way cute! They even included a small piece of custom-made art by Carter! Very cute!

We then enjoyed a candle-lit dinner... from Sonic. When I asked Carter what he wanted, that is what he told me! Afterall, isn't Valentine's Day a day to celebrate and serve those we love!? So, Sonic it was.

Home, Sweet, Warm, Home

2008-02-12T23:18:00.000-08:00

"Home, sweet, warm, home" were the words Carter said as we pulled up to our fairly new home. Its a good thing.

Pee Diaries

2008-02-10T14:58:00.000-08:00

I was so excited to go to my new ward which I have attended for only 3 weeks now. I dressed Carter so cute. Right before we were about to leave for church, I had Carter sit on the toilet to go potty. Now, if you would've asked me this morning if Carter was potty-trained, I would've answered with a very triumphant and proud "YES!".

So, off we go to sacrament meeting. Right about to the part where they get to ward and stake business, Carter looks up at me with fear in his eyes and says, "Mama, I went potty". I looked down and lo and behold, there is Carter standing in a puddle of his own pee. I quickly grabbed his things, stuffed them in his bag, and bolted outta there!

I was so embarrassed and kind of mad. I took Carter home, put him in the shower (he likes to shower by the way) and quickly chose a new outfit for church from shoes to shirt. As he showered, I was just thinking how angry I was and it occurred to me that its really not that big of a deal. Carter had an accident. It may be too soon to say, but I am sure I will laugh about this later.

We went back to church, which I was not sure I wanted to do, and it ended up being a wonderful day. Carter is asleep right now recovering from the dramatic events of the day. I think I may need to too.

Sleeping in the Nude... Don't we all wish we could do it?

2008-02-09T22:35:00.001-08:00

Ok, so I just went to check on Carter who is asleep and this is how I found him.

Mind you, he was completely dressed in a full body sleeper with the feet! Oh and take notice of the "blank". He cannot function (or not function for that matter) without it.

It's been a bad day...

2008-02-09T22:15:00.000-08:00

Today Carter slept in, so that means I did too.
I did not work today.
I ate Strawberry Frosted Mini-Wheats.
I woke up to a clean house because I stayed up late last night cleaning it.
I worked out at the gym (can you say endorphins?).
I had an incredibly good hair day.
I went to the City Library and partook of delicious asian food for the Chinese New Year for free.
It is the year of the Rat, which I happen to be.
I bought some really cute jeans for Carter at Old Navy for $6 bucks.
I took a nap.
I fixed the internet which has been broken since Wednesday.

It appears that I would've had a great day, but not so much. Carter has been very... well, lets say challenging. He is always so perfect that if he has an off-day, it turns my world upside down! I finally had to just tell him to go get in his bed and go to sleep.

Thank goodness for naptime and bedtime!

About 5 years late...

2008-02-06T22:21:00.000-08:00

Ok, Ok. So I have finally jumped on the "blogging bandwagon"... about 5 years late. This reminds me of a time I was wearing these really, really hideous shoes that I thought were hip and I asked my friend Emiko (from Japan) what she thought of them. She said in her adorable, broken english, "Oh yes, we wore those about 5 years ago in Japan". Needless to say, that would be the last time I wore my hot pink, platform flip flops. Ughhh... Those were bad. Anyway, I have just decided to live by the motto, "Everyone else is doing it, so why shouldn't I?". Ok, not really.

Where to begin...

I just moved into my new apartment with Carter. It is very cute but very wierd after living in my own house for years. But, still very cute. I even have a fireplace. I love fireplaces. Carter still isn't sure about his new room so he often finds his way into my bed, but I don't mind. It is just like an endless sleepover with a little person. It's fun.

I am still working for Mirabella Beauty, which I still love. I was just recently promoted to Senior Artist & Educator for the state of Utah. I also am working for a company called SkinCareRX, an online retail store for high-end, clinical and medical grade skin care. I do consultations over the phone (also known as "Sales") with various clients. I have found that I am quite a convincing woman. I did begin there as the Customer Service Manager but decided that working 60 hours a week just isn't my bag. So, I cut back to 12 hours a week which is much more my style. I am also doing various things on the side such as Bridal makeup, Fashion makeup and skin care treatments. You can find more information on that by visiting my website at illuminatebycarly.com

Carter is as cute as ever. I know that I am his mother and therefore, I am biased, but seriously, he is stinkin' cute. Here is a list of the Top Ten Best Things Carter Says.

10. When he is told NO, he says: "Maybe later? In a little while? How 'bout tomorrow?"

9. When he has a bowel movement he calls them "tummy aches". For example: "Mom, I had lots of tummy aches in the toilet!".

8. Every morning he says: "Mom, I am hungry! I want Mac & Cheese and some Chockie Milk." Spoken like a true 3-year old...

7. "I am a child of GUY..." Carter's version of the popular primary song, 'I am a Child of God'.

6. "Mom, I love you."

5. "Mom, do you like my blank?" Blank meaning Blanket. Yes, he still has a blanket but he never had a passifier, stopped drinking with bottles at 11 months and started sleeping in a big boy bed at 18 months, SO LAY OFF! Don't go trying to strip him of the last shred of babyhood he has!

4. "Heavenly Father, please bless my blank, my trucks, my cars, my motorcycles... oh and Annie and Jayson!" Just a little excerpt from Carter's bedtime prayers. They seriously can go on forever!

3. Often times, Carter does not just express himself in words, he expresses himself through the movement of dance. Man, that kid has got some killer moves! He does this one thing where he bends back with his hands behind him and then he... well, you will just have to ask him to do it for you. He will. It's amazing.

2. When it is time for Carter to take a nap, also known as "Mommy's Sanity", he will say, "No Mom! It's not 32:56 yet!" He thinks he can read the time. He is quite brilliant.

1. Finally, the #1 Best Thing Carter Says, "Mom, you are so beautiful.", as he strokes my hair.

As you can see, we are happy, healthy and having a blast.